Subscription Newsletter for Neurodiverse Couples

My subscription newsletter on Substack is called How We Miss Each Other.

The newsletter consists of essays and reflections on misunderstanding, intimacy, conflict, interpretation, and the difficulty of making contact across difference. Some pieces remain close to the terrain of neurodiverse relationships, but the scope is broader: the publication now considers the patterns by which people misread one another, the ways relationships harden under strain, and what becomes possible when experience is named more accurately.

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Purpose and Scope

The essays are written to support clarity and reflection rather than to offer formulas, advice, or quick solutions. They examine what people are often actually living through when communication breaks down, when care does not translate, when repeated misunderstanding begins to reorganize daily life, and when the meanings two people assign to the same moment no longer match.

Much of my professional work has involved couples, and that experience continues to inform the writing. But this publication is not limited to one kind of relationship or one clinical frame. It is a place to think carefully about human contact itself: how people come to feel unseen, how conflict acquires force, how language can both illuminate and distort, and why understanding is often harder, and more necessary, than it first appears.

The aim is not to erase difference or force resolution. It is to see more clearly what is happening between people, and within them, so that what has been misread can begin to come into view.

Access and Support

All essays are available to both free and paid subscribers. Paid subscriptions support the ongoing work of the publication rather than unlocking a separate tier of writing. From time to time, subscribers who choose to support the work may also be invited to workshops, online discussions, or other live offerings through Substack.

Details about subscription options are available directly on Substack.

Relationship to Other Work

The newsletter is not a substitute for therapy, coaching, or courses. It is a separate space for sustained thought, language, and reflection.

Many readers use it as a way of remaining engaged with these ideas over time, whether or not they are working with me in another capacity.

Engagement

Readers are welcome to comment on essays or contact me by email. Topic suggestions may also be submitted through Substack.